
When You Feel in Limbo About Your Career
That's so normal. What next move to take in your career is one of the most common conversations I have with clients. I get it because I had the same feelings throughout my career. It first started when I worked at Arthur Andersen. There was a dilemma going on in my...

How to hold your peace
I love feeling at peace. How about you? It makes me thing about the Buddhist festival in England this summer. I spent both weeks doing two volunteer jobs. One of those jobs was to help out in the takeaway salad bar. It was a blessing for me because I got to work...

A Simple Shift to Make a Big Problem Shrink
I enjoy doing this one exercise with my clients and myself that identifies what shifts an experience to become easy and natural to do. It's a quick exercise of examining memories and laying out key characteristics of your sensory experience. One part of that is...

How to Survive Falling out of Love with Your Job
This begs the question. Did you really love your job in the first place? It depends on your definition doesn't it. If your definition of love is the affectionate concern for the well-being of others (or in this case your job), this would be impossible wouldn't it....

The one helpful thing we hesitate to do
I was talking to a dear friend over the weekend about how I started facing the unpleasant feelings I was having in my life. And, I noticed one important thing. There was a period of time where I was in a relationship that stretched me outside the normal bounds of...

Office Politics: Your Opportunity and Challenge
An unusual thing happened at the end of my CFO assignment in India. As my successor came in, the operations team arranged for the finance team to change floors. Oddly, I was not told. There was some hint of it and I thought no way would no one tell me. And, yep! It...